I am about to start an argumentative essay on Christmas giving. My argument: That Christmas giving in America is not giving at all.
I'll use an online definition of giving to present (pun intended) my case: Giving is to present voluntarily and without expecting reciprocation. Most definitions go after this same idea; that giving expects nothing in return.
I wonder what America's motives for giving will be this Christmas season. I wonder if gifts will be given without expectation. My concern is that during the holidays, Americans give with ulterior motives, that they give with certain expectations, and that their giving may even be obligatory.
Is it also possible that Americans will give seeking some kind of personal gratification?
"Look at what I got you. Look how much I love you."
Are gifts a tangible expression of love?
If that's what they are, then it'll suck to be poor this Christmas.
"Look at what I got you. Look how much I love you."
Are gifts a tangible expression of love?
If that's what they are, then it'll suck to be poor this Christmas.
I am also curious how much money Americans will spend this holiday season, and if something could have been done with that money to more positively impact the world.
What if we used all of our Christmas money, for example, to provide clean drinking water to third world countries? That would surely devastate our economy. What an unrealistic and stupid idea. Why should Americans help others at the risk of destroying our own economy? After all, if we were to give all of our Christmas money to end sickness, poverty, disease, and death in poorer countries... what would we get in return?
Nothing.
That sounds like giving.
Nothing.
That sounds like giving.
On that same note, my last concern is that Americans "give" to those who are not in need.
I don't need another coat or mug this Christmas. Selfishly I would love a new Gore-Tex Patagonia down jacket, that's water proof and has a warm hood on it. I'd also like a new carbon fiber mountain bike, and, while I'm thinking about it, I better add these to the list of things I need.
I recently watched a Living Water video stating that 884 million people lack access to clean drinking water, and that with $10 I could give a child water for life.
That can't be true though right?
It's true. And we should think about that every time we hit the slopes in our $400 jackets.
I'm an offender too, but my hope is that we all re-think a few things this holiday season.
My hope is that America gives this Christmas, expecting nothing in return, and to those who are in need.
Now I need to go work on my paper...
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5 comments:
I think this could win the Pulitzer... but maybe I am bias. I think that we are all too selfish and lack self control to do what you are proposing, but maybe, just maybe it will inspire someone to rethink their old ways. Maybe it could start a movement that could change the way many think about Christmas. But like I said before, I could be bias. One thing is for sure, you have a way with words, love. :)
I agree with Amber - this is a great read! :o) I wish more people thought about Christmas this way!
This year I'm "purchasing" some kind of gift for a child/family in need in honor of my parents and sister/husband from World Vision. You can purchase anything from animals to clean drinking water to HIV and AIDS care. http://donate.worldvision.org/OA_HTML/xxwv2ibeCCtpSctDspRte.jsp?section=10389
Wait... which Patagonia jacket do you want? I'll bet at least $10 of that $400 goes to the slave kids who made it. The majority definitely goes to the company, Patagonia, which invariably helps spur on the U.S. consumerist bubble. So, really, it's a win-win-win. You can ski, not only in style, but with the satisfaction of knowing you're making a difference in your world.
Well, if not entirely true, at least it makes me feel better about my awesome Mountain Hardware jacket... ok, ok, jackets...
Either that crazy man in a beard just wrote an amazing article, or we have a baby genius on our hands.
Well, uhh, in Bri's hands, actually.
I just found this in my research- The National Retail Federation's holiday sales forecast for 2010: $447.1 billion will be spent by Americans. The NRF expects the average American to spend $688.87 this holiday season. They also expect the average holiday shopper to spend $107.50 on him/herself. Yikes.
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